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Today I talked to an Atheist.

Fri Apr 4, 2008 8:22 PM EDT
religion, christian, god, atheism, hope, discussion, chow, religion-vs-atheism
By Rob Ballew

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Today I talked to a buddy of mine who happened to be an Atheist. I was on my way to breakfast at the chow hall when I ran into a buddy of mine. He asked if I was going and if I minded if he tagged along. As we made our way to chow we talked our trade and exchanged mission stories. He is in a different section now, but at one time we where in the same section. We laughed about missions we had in the past and people we have had run ins with. As we talked we started swaying towards religion. He is an Atheist, I am a Christian. So in a sense we had a lot to talk about. We talked about religion. No debating or arguing. No name calling or trying to prove the other a fool. It was basically 2 friends sharing our beliefs and pretty much agreeing to disagree. And to tell you the truth it was kind of refreshing to me.

You see so many times when religion is brought up the discussion can become very nasty or heated. People whether theist or atheist can tun into jerks when confronted by those with opposing beliefs. Like so many other issues we tend to have the my way or the highway mentality. The sad thing is we let this separate us more. It is sometimes one more thing we use to divide us. I told him of one of the big arguments I have seen being made. I asked do you think religion causes violence, he looked me in the eyes and told me we would just find something else to fight about. And the truth is I feel the same way. Yes, there are whack jobs doing bad things for religion, just as I am sure there are whack jobs doing bad things for drugs, money, gangs, you name it. The past is full of all sort of religious nuts, but I also know for a fact there where just as many nonreligious nuts running around to.

The bottom line for me is this we can have an honest discussion without becoming jerks to one another. I can honestly say that I do not look down on anyone for their beliefs. And that religion to me at least is not about violence. To me it is about a word so many like to use today to me it is about "hope". Hope for the fact that if I do good by God that I will go to a better place. Yes there are extremist in all religions and even extremist religions but in truth they are not the norms. And yes, there are those who love to push their belief on others to the point of being annoying and again I feel they are not the norms. Most whether religious or Atheist just want to live their lived the right way and be allowed to believe whatever they choose with out ridicule or attack.

My point is this, we can continue to attack others with opposing beliefs or we can just do what my buddy and I did today at chow agree to disagree and move on. So next time you have a chance to discuss religion versus Atheism why not just talk about it you might learn something.

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Rob Ballew

I apologize slow day in the desert and for some reason this struck me. I wrote this because in truth you can insert any issue we act like jerks about and do this. I have been striving to be this way for a while now. Thanks to the 'vine and a lot of the jerks I have come across I try to enter most conversations as a rational voice no matter how fired up I get. So thanks to all who stop by and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not make this yet another FLAME CENTRAL. You wanna flame write your own article. Let's try to have an intelligent discussion here and maybe learn something here.

Have a great weekend.

  • 21 votes
Reply#1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 8:27 PM EDT
Will Eifert

I asked do you think religion causes violence, he looked me in the eyes and told me we would just find something else to fight about.

This is so telling coming from a soldier. I have great respect for you. I trust you to keep me safe. God bless you.

  • 16 votes
#1.1 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 1:42 AM EDT
A. H. Min

Slow day? This is without a doubt one of your greatest works of writing ever.

  • 14 votes
#1.2 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:40 AM EDT
Rob Ballew

Will Thanks for the comment it is funny because in our situation there are times thing can get heated between s soldiers, but this conversation turned into a very good discussion and in fact and I learned a lot

Andrew you got to be joking nothing I ever write is that good. But thanks for the comment and stopping bye buddy.

  • 11 votes
#1.3 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 11:19 AM EDT
Michelle Connolly

Who knew that an article written on a "slow" day would cause so much discussion!! As I already mention, excellent article, keep up the great writing.

  • 6 votes
#1.4 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 7:13 PM EDT
IAmEverydayPeople

I wrote this because in truth you can insert any issue we act like jerks about and do this.

There are some issues that turn otherwise rational people into Rovian spinners. Cognitive dissonance is a powerful psychological force.

  • 5 votes
#1.5 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 11:55 PM EDT
juli54

Nice job, Rob, very thoughtful piece.

Your buddy sounds like a smart guy.

May God bless you and keep you safe.

  • 4 votes
#1.6 - Fri Apr 18, 2008 10:26 PM EDT
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rottlady

It was basically 2 friends sharing our beliefs and pretty much agreeing to disagree.

I believe that is the only way two intelligent people should interact....Attacking others beliefs really doesn't accomplish anything but make somebody mad or defensive....

  • 12 votes
Reply#2 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 8:41 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

Exactly my point and even if we didn't know one another the respect factor should kick in. Thanks for your comment and I apologize for deviating from my usual fair of late. This is a little Rob predeployment. I'll get back to my regular writing within the next few days. Thanks again.

  • 10 votes
#2.1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 8:45 PM EDT
rottlady

No apology necessary, I think this is an important subject....

  • 9 votes
#2.2 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 8:59 PM EDT
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Andrea A

My point is this, we can continue to attack others with opposing beliefs or we can just do what my buddy and I did today at chow agree to disagree and move on.

With you being in the military, this works on many levels... Thank you for sharing a truly wonderful and all too infrequent experience you've had. I am touched by your heart felt sentiment and hope this finds its way to a lot of ears....Clipped

  • 6 votes
Reply#3 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 8:52 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

Thank you so much Andrea, I just see so much arguing I find it sad that we can't just let these things go. I thank you so much for commenting and stopping by:)

  • 5 votes
#3.1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 8:57 PM EDT
Andrea A

My privilege.

  • 5 votes
#3.2 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 9:29 PM EDT
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niall-263265

hi Rob,
i find your blogs and writing style very interesting especially the one on how you feel you are missing out on things back home. if you wouldnt mind id appreciate if you could answer a few questions on what iv reflected on alot, if you cant its no problem

i would appreciate it if you could tell me if iraq has changed you psychologically, has it made you jumpy,unable to relax, easily irritated, or has it made you a better person (if its too personal then il understand you not answering), personally id imagine serving in iraq would really change me and in a very bad way

do you believe you will find the transition moving from a soldier who is trained to kill and to always be alert and suspicious to being a relaxed family man expected to work a 9 to 5 job (assuming you plan on leaving the army). i remember reading of a soldier who said he was going to stay away from nighclubs for a long time once he returned to america as the army had trained him to kill and he felt it would be dangerous to go to a nighclub as his mind was now trained to react violently(especially when you assume there would be alcohol involved)

some people are supposed to develop a sort of war humor where they react to horrible situations with humour orlaughing (presumably its to try and distance themselves from an awful situation). hve you seen this happen much?

finally on the subject of other soldier blogs i would recommend 'my war' by colby buzzell (assuming it wasnt in that collection of blogs book you read) its a really insightful read. best of luck to you and your comrades from Ireland

  • 4 votes
Reply#4 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 9:32 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

Psychologically, I think initially I will be a bit jumpier, but that goes away with time. But I also think it has made me a better person. I enjoy helping people and although I do not help directly I do help indirectly.

Family wise. I had a small issue last time. This time I feel things will be a little better in that regard. My prior tour here in 03, it was still when the ground war was going on. But this time thanks to the living conditions and internet the readjusting will be a bit easier for me. I am not a violent person by nature and I tend to keep the same stance while working here. I try to keep a level head and only react when time comes. The big thing to remember different people respond to things differently. War is no different. We (my unit) has been lucky here, and I hope things do not change before we leave.

Third question. No like I said we all respond in different ways most of us have been very fortunate to not see some of the things you might imagine.

Thanks for your comment and for the recommendation I'll definitely look into it.

  • 9 votes
#4.1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 10:09 PM EDT
OKrahoma

I love Colby Buzzell's book, & also Jason Christopher Hartley's also...Go Rob, you rock! Stay safe, keep up the good work!

  • 2 votes
#4.2 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 8:56 PM EDT
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pulsar

Rob I am guessing that your faith has to be stronger than most in your current situation? I am also curious if you ever have a chance to interact with local Islamic citizens there? I am amazed at how difficult people can be. Take the Sunni and Shiite for example. Here are two cultures from the same religion and they have been fighting each other for years and years. From my understanding they have be fighting ever since the Quran was written but you would think they would stop and realize they are killing each other for what?
God Bless!!

  • 5 votes
Reply#5 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 9:43 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

I rarely get time to talk to Iraqis do to the nature of our job. I have some of the same thoughts about Sunni/Shiite strife. I have often wondered a lot of the same things. But as I said I rarely get to talk anything but business with the Iraqis we deal with.

  • 5 votes
#5.1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 10:12 PM EDT
Seeking

To: Pulsar

Hardly unique to the Muslim faith, wouldn't you agree? Weren't Protestants and Catholics killing one another for centuries (think Thirty Years' War, 1618-1648 Anno Domini)? Religion is inherently divisive, even if a few particularly tolerant individuals can divore themselves from that mold. It seems a tad ethnocentric to reserve a comment like that for Muslims alone. Who knows how to wage war better than European/American nations of Judeo-Christian faith? We've had a lot of practice (think Crusades, Conquistadors, Manifest Destiny, etc.) Islamic nations are having a hard time of things in the present, but Catholic vs. Protestant turmoil has materialized as recently the late 20th century-- familiar with the IRA? Besides, don't Protestants and Catholics both worship the same deity? And his son, right? Isn't that pantheism? But I digress...

  • 4 votes
#5.2 - Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:02 AM EDT
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Neron Kesar

So in a sense we had a lot to talk about. We talked about religion. No debating or arguing. No name calling or trying to prove the other a fool. . . . And to tell you the truth it was kind of refreshing to me.

I would be happy to have a discussion with you. Do you have questions?

  • 5 votes
Reply#6 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 9:51 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

No my friend I am confident in my faith and thank you for stopping by and reading my article.

  • 5 votes
#6.1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 10:15 PM EDT
Neron Kesar

You are welcome. You and yours are doing a good job in Iraq and Afghanistan. God bless and peace to you.

  • 6 votes
#6.2 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 10:30 PM EDT
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Brad Leclerc

I have a lot of respect for people of all (or no) religious affiliation that can let their beliefs be a personal thing and no necessarily something that has to be beaten into everyone's head at every chance. I've known many religious people who cannot deal with someone having a differing opinion, and, of course, I've known many atheists that act the same way a lot of the time...and it's pretty damn annoying.

The only exception I think is when someone tries to push their opinion or belief as "fact", or otherwise think some "logical" or "scientific" argument actually proves that their opinion is right....if those "facts" don't stand up to critical thinking I have a problem with letting it slide. But I certainly wouldn't presume to imply that I had much in the way of positive proof for my opinion either...at best I'd be arguing for the middle ground of "we don't KNOW yet...we both have reasons to think how we do, and neither of us can objectively PROVE we are right...but using bad science, or faulty reasoning doesn't help your case, and presuming your opinion to be fact is just plain silly"

Thankfully there are those (it would seem you are one of them from this article and other such things I've seen from you), that understand the difference between opinion and objective proof...I just more did...on both sides of the fence.

  • 13 votes
#7 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 9:58 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

I understand a lot of what you said I feel exactly the same way. I get annoyed at both sides at times.

Thankfully there are those (it would seem you are one of them from this article and other such things I've seen from you), that understand the difference between opinion and objective proof...I just more did...on both sides of the fence.

I also think that most on both sides do look at things in a similar light, to bad there are a lot of others who make them look bad.

Thanks for the comment and for stopping by, nice to see you on this article.

  • 7 votes
#7.1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 10:23 PM EDT
Jivatman

Brad, why do you have a problem with presenting theological beliefs as logical?

For hundreds of years, philosophers have used a great variety of methods to present/refute various understandings of god through methods of logic.

Even mathematics is not a science, for numbers are ideas, not physical objects that exist in the real world.

Just as the concept of a singularity that existed before the big bang is a concept, not a physical, scientific object.

It gets even muddier and more fascinating when we consider things like fractal geometry and imaginary numbers.

Whether or not you agree with the thinking or not, it is foolish to believe that theology/philosophy does not contain "critical thinking".

Perhaps you're simply apply this to a variety of people who, whether or not they are certain of god's existence, or of how the universe is structured, do not apply any critical analysis to their beliefs, and do not continue to develop or seek proofs of their understandings.

But this can be applied to both atheists and theists. God-filled or godless, random or structured, the unexamined life is not worth living, and the unexamined universe is not worth living in.

  • 6 votes
#7.2 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 11:53 PM EDT
Brad Leclerc

Brad, why do you have a problem with presenting theological beliefs as logical?

I don't. I have a problem with presenting ANY belief as logical and/or rational when it doesn't hold up to the scrutiny. The only connection with theology there is that there are a lot more people presenting theological ideas that don't hold up to scientific/logical/etc scrutiny than there are with other sets of beliefs...but the idea is the same in all cases, theological or otherwise.

Whether or not you agree with the thinking or not, it is foolish to believe that theology/philosophy does not contain "critical thinking".

Indeed, which is why I do NOT believe that. Only when the argument or idea (whatever it may be) is both presented as fact or truth AND don't hold up to critical thinking, do I have a problem with it. Ideas that do hold up to critical thinking, logic, etc etc, I have no problem with. I guess maybe I wasn't clear enough about that originally....

But this can be applied to both atheists and theists. God-filled or godless, random or structured, the unexamined life is not worth living, and the unexamined universe is not worth living in.

I couldn't agree more. No group or set of beliefs (or lack thereof, or whatever the case may be) gets a free pass, or any more or less examination and criticism then any other. Every idea should be held to the same standards if it's to be considered a "fact", or otherwise used to justify an action...or basically anything beyond personal opinion (which of course is irrelevant to objective thinking and such)....everyone should be able to think and believe whatever they want.....when they want to present those thoughts or beliefs as facts, they have to work for it :)

  • 7 votes
#7.3 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 12:19 AM EDT
Jivatman

I agree... too often theism vs. atheism arguments do not involve logic at all. This doesn't help anyone.

Atheism will use "clever" sophisms like FSM to "discredit" theists... Ridiculous to begin with, considering, for at least 4 thousand years, the leading theological/philosophical thinkers did not have an Anthropomorphic or even finite conception of god.

Which would amount, in essence is no different than, for example, attacking the mathematical concept of infinity, randomness, or imaginary numbers (Uhh... because I can't see it or quantify it, it doesn't exist)

Sophists like Xeno would be proud.

For their part, the less sophisticated theists/proselytizers will just use cop-outs like pascal's wager.

The implications of the questions of reality are too important to bicker like children about.

  • 7 votes
#7.4 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 12:39 AM EDT
fugitive247

when they want to present those thoughts or beliefs as facts, they have to work for it :)

Herein, dear friends, we enter the realm of "faith". This is based on neither tangible fact nor sound logic, but rather that "knowing" at the core of one's being.

Elusive? Yes.

Subjective? Of course.

Difficult to to either prove or refute? You betcha!

Necessary? There are theists and atheists the world over who seem to agree that a certain intrinsic level of intangible "knowing" offers the promise of hope.

  • 6 votes
#7.5 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 1:02 AM EDT
Jivatman

Herein, dear friends, we enter the realm of "faith". This is based on neither tangible fact nor sound logic, but rather that "knowing" at the core of one's being.

Please refer to my above posts as you attempt to say that theism does not use logic.

Subjective? Of course.

Not any more than concepts are subjective. Again, it appears you did not read my above posts.

Necessary? There are theists and atheists the world over who seem to agree that a certain intrinsic level of intangible "knowing" offers the promise of hope.

I have no idea where you are trying to go with this statement.

  • 4 votes
#7.6 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 1:14 AM EDT
Edelweiss

Atheism will use "clever" sophisms like FSM to "discredit" theists...

Hi Jivatman (@ 7.4), the FSM was not conceived to "discredit" theists but rather to combat the teaching of creationism in the Kansas schools. The point was to illustrate that it is not reasonable or desirable to promote one religion's creation myth over the myriad of others in public schools.

Sorry, I have to stand up to FSM persecution when I see it. :-)

Rob, very nice article. I like the way you've articulated your views, and you are lucky to have a friend with whom you can have these conversations. Seems more and more difficult to do these days...

  • 16 votes
#7.7 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 7:28 AM EDT
Rob Ballew

Thanks Tracie, I just fund it to be an interesting conversation. And thought I would share it with others.Thanks for the comment and stopping by.

  • 5 votes
#7.8 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:28 AM EDT
Jivatman

Hi Jivatman (@ 7.4), the FSM was not conceived to "discredit" theists but rather to combat the teaching of creationism in the Kansas schools. The point was to illustrate that it is not reasonable or desirable to promote one religion's creation myth over the myriad of others in public schools.

Well, imo, the establishment clause does not apply to state governments, which was the common opinion until 1994. But then again, states have long lost their power under the constitution, and are no longer the sovereign entities they were origonally intended to be.

Why not let the people of the state decide what they want? Why should the Federal government bully them into their own interpretation of the first? If they became a laughing stock, so be it. I'd see that as a sign that we're not quite a tyranny, yet.

As to whether it is desirable to teach only a single view, no, it would be preferable to show many.

Personally, I do not see why there should be a problem exploring issues of god in an elective philosophy class exploring Plato, Aristotle, Kant, ect. (Plotinus I really like, though my favorite of all is Adi Shankara).

I realize it would be difficult to do properly, but philosophy teaches the type of thinking which is sorely needed in the days where people resort to straw man.

But nobody should be averse to this. Not atheists, not the Illinois Rep, nobody.

Sorry, I have to stand up to FSM persecution when I see it. :-)

Does not change the fact that the FSM conception of god has form, therefore finite,
And an implied attack on religion in general which holds no water.
Views, when held merely for jest, are deserving of persecution.

  • 4 votes
#7.9 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 12:20 PM EDT
Brad Leclerc

Personally, I do not see why there should be a problem exploring issues of god in an elective philosophy class exploring Plato, Aristotle, Kant, ect. (Plotinus I really like, though my favorite of all is Adi Shankara).

I would LOVE to see a somewhat standard comparative religion class and/or critical thinking class (or at least part of a class). Not really sure how it could be done and keep everyone happy enough not to go nuts about it, but something along those lines is sorely needed imo. As an atheist I have no problem at all with teaching several ideas and/or theories on any given topic, so long as it's done in a way that holds up ALL the ideas in the same scrutiny...which sadly is nothing like what the people fighting for religious ideas in classrooms seem to want (for the most part anyway).

  • 8 votes
#7.10 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 12:39 PM EDT
Jivatman

I heard a story a while back about some schools in Britain giving philosophy classes through many grades, starting young.

They mentioned how they asked questions like "Is rain music?", and how vigorously the children debated questions like that.

I see we agree that we'd both like to see logic/philosophy type classes as standard coursework.

Of course you mention the inherent difficulty, perhaps impossibility, of a teacher being unbiased with regards to it.

Well, maybe it isn't a terribly big deal, as long as your talking about legitimate philosophers, and logic-based ideas.

I would'nt see it as a problem if you had tons of little Kantian, Platonists, or the like running around. I'd actually enjoy that.

  • 4 votes
#7.11 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 6:35 PM EDT
iarnuocon

Why not let the people of the state decide what they want? Why should the Federal government bully them into their own interpretation of the first? If they became a laughing stock, so be it. I'd see that as a sign that we're not quite a tyranny, yet. Honestly? The people have decided what they want-- one country from sea to shining sea, not a loose confederation of mini-countries bound by a compact into a federation of mutual respect. We call ourselves "Americans" rather than "[insert state here]-ans", we talk about American "culture", to travel abroad we seek identification papers from the federal government, and we expect that federal government to protect us both domestically and abroad. Ever since the Civil War, we have-- as a nation-- steered in this direction, wrong or right. We have, over the years, increasingly believed that the Bill of Rights should limit all government power, that it is indicative of the rights we think all people should have anywhere in America, irrespective of state of residence. It is one reason why we say "the United States of America is..." instead of "the United States of America are..."

And generally speaking, when you see someone lamenting the shift away from "states' rights", it is generally in the service of the opinion that some people should have their rights restricted-- this religion is better than that religion, this skin color is better than that skin color, this sexual orientation is better than that one, and so on and so on...

Two hundred years ago, prior to the advent of near instantaneous communication, or rapid widely accessible transportation, having states manage their own affairs was not only desirable, but necessary. Today, it's certainly less necessary, which has led to widespread questioning as to whether it's desirable.

Does not change the fact that the FSM conception of god has form, therefore finite, And an implied attack on religion in general which holds no water. Frankly, a God without form who yet somehow interacts with the universe is the concept which holds no water. It's hard to conceive of a God who could be "infinite in form" and yet have both a "personal" interest in the universe and the ability to interact with it.

for at least 4 thousand years, the leading theological/philosophical thinkers did not have an Anthropomorphic or even finite conception of god. Sorry, but the history of religion is rife conceptions of God[s] both anthropomorphic and finite. The conception of an infinite and mysterious God seems primarily to be a response to our increasing understanding of the way the universe works.

And the attempt to use mathematical concepts to insist that there is a physical correlate for intangible and imaginary numbers is misguided, at best. Unless, of course, you think the best description of "God" is one which is restrained merely to Man's relationship to the universe, and in no way extends to the "spiritual" as that "realm" is commonly conceived.

I'd be ok with that sort of "religion", but that's clearly not the understanding of the overwhelming majority of current religions.

  • 9 votes
#7.12 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 7:02 PM EDT
ffeineandsugar

A good starting point if you want to compare religions is one of the standard collegiate works, The Religions of Man, by Huston Smith. It goes through the major religions in a very non-biased, descriptive format and has a lot of good info. There are plenty of other very good works in this field, I'm just recommending the one that I used in my comparative religion class.

Great seed, btw, and so nice to see everyone playing well together. I'm sure his noodly appendages are swelling with pride to see such good behavior... ;:-)

  • 2 votes
#7.13 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 7:22 PM EDT
Jivatman

Honestly? The people have decided what they want-- one country from sea to shining sea, not a loose confederation of mini-countries bound by a compact into a federation of mutual respect. We call ourselves "Americans" rather than "[insert state here]-ans", we talk about American "culture", to travel abroad we seek identification papers from the federal government, and we expect that federal government to protect us both domestically and abroad. Ever since the Civil War, we have-- as a nation-- steered in this direction, wrong or right. We have, over the years, increasingly believed that the Bill of Rights should limit all government power, that it is indicative of the rights we think all people should have anywhere in America, irrespective of state of residence. It is one reason why we say "the United States of America is..." instead of "the United States of America are..."

"The people" have decided nothing. An increasingly powerful executive branch has decided for them. A stacked Supreme court has decided for them, and decided to re-interpret the constitution against the tenth amendment, but increasingly, against the majority of the other amendments as well.

The federal government has continued to raise taxes to pay for it's military, and it's increasingly powerful, corrupt, and bureaucratic slew of organizations. The States are drowning in debt, and, with federal taxes so high, can no longer afford to raise taxes to pay for their own crumbling infastructure.

And, with the tenth amendment trampled on, they're increasingly powerless against an overreaching federal government.

This was one of the reasons that states were created; to be sovereign entities. The constitution strictly limits the powers assigned to the federal government. These have been trampled upon.

And generally speaking, when you see someone lamenting the shift away from "states' rights", it is generally in the service of the opinion that some people should have their rights restricted-- this religion is better than that religion, this skin color is better than that skin color, this sexual orientation is better than that one, and so on and so on...

No. It's more often in favor of increased rights. For example, gay marriage, for which the federal government was pushing a constitutional amendment against, and many states have defied.

I'm believe I'm significantly more optimistic than you, In that I believe more power needs to be vested in the closest sovereign entity to the people. As time goes by, freedom and equality in culture and in the population increases, yet corruption of the federal government and their limit of individual freedom only increases.

Frankly, a God without form who yet somehow interacts with the universe is the concept which holds no water. It's hard to conceive of a God who could be "infinite in form" and yet have both a "personal" interest in the universe and the ability to interact with it.

We describe god by that which the world is not. The world changes so is without time, space or change. God is of infinite consciousness. We perceive manyness, so all is one.

It is a contradiction to attempt to apply the concept of "personal" interest in that which is a part of him, namely, us.

Sorry, but the history of religion is rife conceptions of God[s] both anthropomorphic and finite. The conception of an infinite and mysterious God seems primarily to be a response to our increasing understanding of the way the universe works.

Kabbalah, Advaita Vedanta, Plotinus, ect. All have a conception of god as one of infinite oneness. I hardly consider 4 thousand+ years to be "recent".

And the attempt to use mathematical concepts to insist that there is a physical correlate for intangible and imaginary numbers is misguided, at best.

You're missing point. There is no concrete correlate for any mathematical concepts whatsoever. We understand them from scientific experiments, and tests of how objects in the universe interact in the real world, but the underlying laws, order, "logos" is you will, is beyond the experiments themselves.

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#7.14 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 7:48 PM EDT
kiml

As an atheist I find some comments wrong.
We need religion. It gives many people a stable base to endure their lives.
We need faith (be it atheism or theism) to follow our view of what our lives should be.
Devout followers (not radicals) of all faiths (not all of them) do not follow the true path of love your fellow man.
Radical Fundamentalists (and I include some atheists) are telling us who to hate and not who to love.
That is wrong.
The basic question: What happens after we die?
The only people who knows the truth are not telling.
Personal opinion: I love surprise parties. I have never had one. So I wont be disappointed.
BTW. Great post.

  • 5 votes
#7.15 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 8:13 PM EDT
iarnuocon

books can sometimes be bad things depending upon what is in them. Unless "the people" choose to do anything about this, then they have chosen strictly by their acquiescence. You can lament that all you like, but the vast majority of Americans simply do not care one way or the other.

We are defined as much by what we choose not to worry about as by what we choose to address. You're free to claim that only the machinations of a despotic government are to blame, but frankly, that's extremely short-sighted.

You might not like the direction we're going in, and I might not like the direction we're going in, but the vast majority seem to like it just fine. If they didn't, it would be more of an issue, wouldn't it?

No. It's more often in favor of increased rights. For example, gay marriage, for which the federal government was pushing a constitutional amendment against, and many states have defied. I obviously disagree. For example, "the federal government" neither pushed for nor passed a constitutional amendment against gay marriage. State representatives pushed for a federal outlawing of gay marriages, and were defeated. In the meantime, anti-gay amendments have passed in a number of states, Ohio included, I'm sad to report. Therefore, by your own chosen example, I have to conclude that you're simply wrong.

I'm believe I'm significantly more optimistic than you, In that I believe more power needs to be vested in the closest sovereign entity to the people. I believe that you don't have nearly enough information about me to draw general conclusions of this sort, and yet, at the same time, I wouldn't be surprised to find you more optimistic than me, since I tend not to be an optimistic person. For instance--

As time goes by, freedom and equality in culture and in the population increases, yet corruption of the federal government and their limit of individual freedom only increases. I'm not sure how you blithely assume this is true. Because blacks are now considered fully human and equal to whites, by the government if not by the whole of society? Because women have the right to vote? You state a contradiction in your own assertion-- freedom and equality in the population increases, while the federal government increases the limits on freedom. And not a few paragraphs earlier, you concluded A stacked Supreme court has... decided to re-interpret the constitution against the tenth amendment, but increasingly, against the majority of the other amendments as well. Is "freedom" increasing or decreasing? If it is increasing, then your fears of a despotic federal government seem unfounded. If it is decreasing, then your optimism about the culture and population seem unfounded. You should make up your mind.

We describe god by that which the world is not. I agree-- god is imaginary, i.e. what the world is not.

The world changes so is without time, space or change. God is of infinite consciousness. We perceive manyness, so all is one. It is a contradiction to attempt to apply the concept of "personal" interest in that which is a part of him, namely, us. These statements are essentially meaningless.

Kabbalah, Advaita Vedanta, Plotinus, ect. All have a conception of god as one of infinite oneness. I hardly consider 4 thousand+ years to be "recent". In terms of the 30,000+ years of human conceptions about gods? 4,000 years is recent. And even now, the beliefs of Plotinus, et al are not widespread, and are directly contradicted daily in the numerous faiths currently practiced today. So I'll repeat myself-- the history of religion is rife conceptions of God[s] both anthropomorphic and finite. The conception of an infinite and mysterious God seems primarily to be a response to our increasing understanding of the way the universe works.

You're missing point. There is no concrete correlate for any mathematical concepts whatsoever. We understand them from scientific experiments, and tests of how objects in the universe interact in the real world, but the underlying laws, order, "logos" is you will, is beyond the experiments themselves. I get the point just fine. In fact, you're merely repeating me, and then tacking a meaningless platitude to the end of my statement as though this somehow alters it. Either God is nothing more than a description of the relationship between real things, or God is imaginary. You're welcome to believe that God is "infinite consciousness" and "exists outside time and space" (for whatever that's supposed to mean), and that everyone and everything is "part of God", but this puts you at odds with the conception of God espoused by most believers in God. And that doesn't even begin to address the fact that most of your conception of God seems to be composed of meaningless phrases which only appear to make any sense.

The basic question: What happens after we die?
The only people who knows the truth are not telling.
What? Bodies don't rot? The assumption that anything other than this happens is exactly that-- an assumption. In no way can an "assumption" be said to be "true" without evidence.

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#7.16 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:29 PM EDT
Jivatman

Is "freedom" increasing or decreasing? If it is increasing, then your fears of a despotic federal government seem unfounded. If it is decreasing, then your optimism about the culture and population seem unfounded. You should make up your mind.

I shall clarify.

Governments, over time, devolve to tyranny. As people desire more and more power, they continually consolidate it into the hands of fewer people, and excersize greater control over the populace.

Individuals are naturally inclined towards liberty. Over time, society grows in openness, and extends more equality to greater proportions of it's populace.

Which results? Liberty, overall, for Society remains as governments pass away.

In terms of the 30,000+ years of human conceptions about gods? 4,000 years is recent.

30,000+ years is beyond the written record we currently have. They may very well have believed the same.

Either God is nothing more than a description of the relationship between real things, or God is imaginary. You're welcome to believe that God is "infinite consciousness" and "exists outside time and space" (for whatever that's supposed to mean), and that everyone and everything is "part of God", but this puts you at odds with the conception of God espoused by most believers in God.

By logos, I mean the inherent order which governs our universe. The physical laws themselves, such as E=MC2. Essentially, the order that exists as opposed to chaos. Also, the fact that anything exists at all.

By god I speak of the source of the logos itself, as well as that which will exist when this universe ends. Alpha and Omega. That which is without time. We know that, in time, this universe will pass away, that that which passes away, which changes, is from the perspective of god, ultimately unreal.

And that doesn't even begin to address the fact that most of your conception of God seems to be composed of meaningless phrases which only appear to make any sense.

Thanks IAR. I could say the same thing about any of your points, or, for that fact, anything I refuse to address simply because I don't want to.

  • 4 votes
#7.17 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 10:11 PM EDT
iarnuocon

Which results? Liberty, overall, for Society remains as governments pass away Then your fears of government are ultimately unfounded.

30,000+ years is beyond the written record we currently have. They may very well have believed the same. It would be a stretch to believe so, since quite obviously most theists do not believe what you propose, even today. And while it wouldn't do to reprint in whole Frazer's Golden Bough in this comment, you might reference it at some time, and see whether or not anthropomorphic representations of deities outweigh or are outweighed by the conception of deity which you propose.

By logos, I mean the inherent order which governs our universe. The physical laws themselves, such as E=MC2. And that differs from my description of God as "nothing more than a description of the relationship between real things" in what way, exactly?

Thanks IAR. I could say the same thing about any of your points, or, for that fact, anything I refuse to address simply because I don't want to. You're welcome to try. In the meantime, please explain for all of us what it means to "exist" when "everything which exists comes to an end." Explain what it means to "exist" "outside of space and time." Explain what the phrase "from the perspective of God" means, i.e. what it means for "the inherent order which governs our universe" (the "physical laws themselves") to have a "perspective".

As I said, these assertions ape the form of meaningful sentences, but seem inherently devoid of meaningful content.

  • 7 votes
#7.18 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 11:16 PM EDT
Jivatman

It would be a stretch to believe so, since quite obviously most theists do not believe what you propose, even today. And while it wouldn't do to reprint in whole Frazer's Golden Bough in this comment, you might reference it at some time, and see whether or not anthropomorphic representations of deities outweigh or are outweighed by the conception of deity which you propose.

Slightly misleading to say "most", as all the Dharmic religions have at least a somewhat realistic timescale:

"The main reason that we oriented this episode of Cosmos towards India is because of that wonderful aspect of Hindu cosmology which first of all gives a time-scale for the Earth and the universe -- a time-scale which is consonant with that of modern scientific cosmology. We know that the Earth is about 4.6 billion years old, and the cosmos, or at least its present incarnation, is something like 10 or 20 billion years old. The Hindu tradition has a day and night of Brahma in this range, somewhere in the region of 8.4 billion years."

"As far as I know. It is the only ancient religious tradition on the Earth which talks about the right time-scale. We want to get across the concept of the right time-scale, and to show that it is not unnatural. In the West, people have the sense that what is natural is for the universe to be a few thousand years old, and that billions is indwelling, and no one can understand it. The Hindu concept is very clear. Here is a great world culture which has always talked about billions of years."

"Finally, the many billion year time-scale of Hindu cosmology is not the entire history of the universe, but just the day and night of Brahma, and there is the idea of an infinite cycle of births and deaths and an infinite number of universes, each with its own gods."

-Carl Sagan

And that differs from my description of God as "nothing more than a description of the relationship between real things" in what way, exactly?

That is what I defined as logos, the natural laws. Since this very well may not be the only universe/logos, that leaves the question of what is beyond, and what is underlying, these logoi.

As I said that that which passes away or changes is ultimately unreal, from the perspective of god.

Perhaps a more comfortable terminology for you is that our universe will ultimately compress back into a singularity

It changes, therefore it is not the ultimate reality.

I use the phrase "From the perspective of god" to describe the world as being false. Yet it is not false because it does have a degree of stability, and people in this universe are able to attain onesss.

Neither completely true or false, it is god, obfuscated.

  • 3 votes
#7.19 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 12:44 AM EDT
iarnuocon

Slightly misleading to say "most", as all the Dharmic religions have at least a somewhat realistic timescale: I see, so when a large contingent of Hindus are marveling at statues of Ganesh weeping tears of milk, this is an indication of their belief in an impersonal God, the "logos"? I think you're losing sight of the very thing which you proposed, that this understanding of an impersonal, non-anthropomorphic God on the part of theists and philosophers is "ancient"-- telling me about Hindu cosmology says nothing about the Hindu conception of God (or gods). It's wonderful that the Hindu cosmology posits something akin to the right time-scale for the age of the universe, but that is at best tangential to your earlier statement.

Over the vast timeline of human religion, the concept of God which you propose is both recent and held by a tiny minority of believers.

And I believe you should look up the definition of the word "most." I stick by it. Even if all believers in Dharmic religions everywhere believed what you propose (although they don't), "most" would still be an appropriate adjective.

Since this very well may not be the only universe/logos, that leaves the question of what is beyond, and what is underlying, these logoi. That's not an explanation, that's merely a rephrasing of the assertion, as are that which passes away or changes is ultimately unreal, from the perspective of god and Neither completely true or false, [the universe] is god, obfuscated.

Let me know when you get around to explaining the meaning that's supposed to be contained within these sentences.

  • 2 votes
#7.20 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 8:53 AM EDT
ffeineandsugar

Even if all believers in Dharmic religions everywhere believed what you propose (although they don't), "most" would still be an appropriate adjective.

huh? I was following your argument, and seeing your point until you threw this sentence out. Logically, it doesn't follow.

Jivat- I agree with you in the ultimate conception of Hinduism focusing on Atman/Brahman as the Logos. But I think the confusion comes with popular religion vs. ideal religion. Religion often devolves into more polytheistic forms - look at what happened to Taoism from the time of Lao-Tze to maybe two centuries after he passed. Catholicism often disguises this with the saints. And many nations on conversion move their Gods into the new religion in this manner. People who blindly attack religion often seize on the crudest forms of the practice and not the way it should be. What do you think?

  • 2 votes
#7.21 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 12:52 PM EDT
Jivatman

I see, so when a large contingent of Hindus are marveling at statues of Ganesh weeping tears of milk, this is an indication of their belief in an impersonal God, the "logos"? I think you're losing sight of the very thing which you proposed, that this understanding of an impersonal, non-anthropomorphic God on the part of theists and philosophers is "ancient"-- telling me about Hindu cosmology says nothing about the Hindu conception of God (or gods). It's wonderful that the Hindu cosmology posits something akin to the right time-scale for the age of the universe, but that is at best tangential to your earlier statement.

Hindus very immensely across many of their interpretations/conceptions of texts. As I said before, one of the most popular ones is to worship "Ishvara"- the infinite, formless, god, in the form of an anthropomorphic one, because the human mind cannot contemplate infinity. This is considered a pragmatic solution, and the form of god chosen can be anything, but most typically one of the Hindu gods, obviously.

Essentially, the theory is different from the practice, for pragmatic reasons.

As for how many religious people have a realistic timescale, I imagine it's more than half, because It's hard to say that 100% of christians and Muslims believe the world is a few thousand years old.

As for my conception of god, you have to ask me a more specific question about them, other than just that you don't understand it, because I did in fact address several of your other points, such as defining god differently than just as a relationship between real things.

If not, well, I suppose you're not up for this type of discussion, because I'm not the first person to use this form of phraseology and deduction.

The ideas themselves, are far from unique, as well.

  • 2 votes
#7.22 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 12:53 PM EDT
iarnuocon

huh? I was following your argument, and seeing your point until you threw this sentence out. Logically, it doesn't follow. Most theists are not believers in Dharmic religion. Even if all followers of Dharmic religions believed wholeheartedly in the conception of God that Jivatman proposes (and I don't believe that they do, as you note), it would still be true that "most" theists don't believe in the conception of God that Jivatman proposes.

Essentially, the theory is different from the practice, for pragmatic reasons. Then you have no room to disagree with my statement. Religion is the practice of religion, as much as it is the theory, and the pragmatic practice of the religion you claim is non-anthropomorphic is itself anthropomorphic, undercutting your argument.

As for my conception of god, you have to ask me a more specific question about them, other than just that you don't understand it, because I did in fact address several of your other points, such as defining god differently than just as a relationship between real things. No, frankly, you didn't. You merely rephrased your assertion without offering explanation. Using one meaningless phrase to "define" another meaningless phrase isn't an explanation, it's obfuscation. I've been fairly clear in what I asked, and I'm still waiting for you to provide an answer that isn't composed of meaningless jargon.

If not, well, I suppose you're not up for this type of discussion, because I'm not the first person to use this form of phraseology and deduction. Yes, the problem is obviously that I'm incapable of understanding, not that your explanations are meaningless. You might stop to consider that being unable to clearly explain something means that you probably don't understand it yourself. I happen to believe that's where you're sitting right now-- lots of convenient obscurantist jargon, and no actual substance.

I'll repeat myself, since you're apparently having trouble grasping the questions-- please explain for all of us what it means to "exist" when "everything which exists comes to an end." Explain what it means to "exist" "outside of space and time." Explain what the phrase "from the perspective of God" means, i.e. what it means for "the inherent order which governs our universe" (the "physical laws themselves") to have a "perspective".

Your last set of answers had zero meaningful content.

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#7.23 - Mon Apr 7, 2008 12:09 AM EDT
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Simon L

Today I talked to an Atheist.

No way!?

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#8 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 10:35 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

Actually before you come with the snarky remarks, the whole reason behind the article and comment is the fact that we "talked" not argued or even debated we actually sat and had a rational discussion about something so many here on newsvine act pretty irrational towards. Thanks for the comment.

  • 12 votes
#8.1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 11:25 PM EDT
Simon L

I still think it's a rather negative headline.

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#8.2 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 1:03 PM EDT
Proud American-252641

Simon L---

Are you just trying to pick a fight or do you have a real comment to make.

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#8.3 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 1:09 PM EDT
Andrea A

Today I talked to an Atheist.

Simon L. Unless you can explain yourself as to why you find that statement negative. The only thing in here negative would be you. And a bit trollish as well. I am curious as to why you find a simple and straight forward headline Negative?

  • 7 votes
#8.4 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 1:22 PM EDT
Simon L

The headline reinforces the negative group thinking "we vs them".

The headline gives the reader a negative impression about atheists, ie: "bah today I talked to one of those awful atheists!" Or it says that "oh my god, today I talked to an Atheist! I am scared mommy, will I go to hell now?"

By the way, the nickname "Proud American" is really something...

  • 7 votes
#8.5 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 6:59 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

Look Simon had I wanted to be inflammatory I would have written it that way. I apologize but the headline fits the article and it is not meant to be taken as negative. And if that is the case I hope to see you on act like a jerk to others who have written negative headlines no matter what they are writing about. I apologize if I offended anyone but it is not meant in that context . But I am sure you will take it the way you want no matter what I try to say.

  • 5 votes
#8.6 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 7:11 PM EDT
MinnieApolis

Rob, the headline was not negative.
What went thru my mind when I read it was, whoa, he's gotta be some brave soldier to dare to do that, and probably on his own time, too. Too many people are terrified of having their own assumptions called into question, and even discussing something with an atheist (or a Born-again C, or a Mormon, or a Muslim) is too disturbing to them.
Keep on keeping on, Rob, and we will ALL of us on the Vine breathe a sigh of relief when you are stateside again.

  • 6 votes
#8.7 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 7:24 PM EDT
Proud American-252641

The nick name came from a quick comment when I responded to another loudmouth like yourself. (I guess if you're going to be nasty, I will return the favor). But, that being said, I am a Proud American, so thanks for the compliment. (dripping with sarcasm)

Rob, I don't mean to use your awesome story to sling mud at someone else, I apologize.

  • 4 votes
#8.8 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 7:42 PM EDT
iarnuocon

Rob, I don't mean to use your awesome story to sling mud at someone else, I apologize. Yes, you do. At least be honest. If you didn't, you would have refrained from mud slinging. You may feel as though it were justified, but don't pretend anyone held a gun to your head and forced you to do it.

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#8.9 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:33 PM EDT
Simon L

Actually before you come with the snarky remarks

The only thing in here negative would be you.

I hope to see you on act like a jerk to others...

...another loudmouth like yourself.

Nice, you guys really show how an good christian should behave. Keep up the good work. I really feel welcomed. Mmm..

All I said in my comment was that I found the headline to be offensive/negative towards atheists and that it reinforces the groupthinking of us vs them, which I find dangerous.

Maybe you guys like this grouping, where we divide and rank people based on their beliefs or their lack off?

Either way it's obvious you guys dont like feedback that you find negative (or a threat to your beliefs) and thats why you attack me so fast and nastily.

The proud american asked me:

Are you just trying to pick a fight or do you have a real comment to make.

My response must be that it seems you guys (not only the proud american) want to pick a fight. But I guess that is in the nature of religious people (as you haven't proved me wrong so far)...

  • 4 votes
#8.10 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:37 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

Look Simon as I said I apologize and also as I said I do not want this to turn into a flame fest. I guess sometimes it is to much ask. Thanks for the comments and if I offended sorry.

  • 7 votes
#8.11 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:56 PM EDT
Andrea A

Saying someone is an atheist, when they are in fact an atheist is not negative, Its just observation.

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#8.12 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 11:27 PM EDT
epaph

i think that the atheist and religious vs. argument is one that will be kicked about for times to come. however, one must realise that it is in the human nature and interest to clarify by categorizing. the human body does this to ward off infection the eye does this to decipher threat and the world does this by extension.

we see things as either dangerous or safe, worthwhile or a waste, good or bad. the grey is what gets us in trouble.

the idea of "god fearing" people being by design good some how isnt universal ( and im catholic ) and the idea of being " godless" doesn't hold water either as a determining factor to worth. ive known people of both persuasion that both uphold and break these ideals.

at this point in a stratified society there is no determining factors which we can trust to make or break an individual.

we cant assume

we must moreover remember that people are people and they are gonna do what the are gonna do- good or bad.

although their upbringing and belief structure will contribute to their outcome and behavior it will not defiantly determine it.

rob- i enjoy stopping by your column and love to watch how you eloquently side step dismay and conflict in the thread resulting from your first hand experience as represented on the vine. keep it up

  • 4 votes
#8.13 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 1:41 AM EDT
Edelweiss

Thanks for the comments and if I offended sorry.

Rob, your title is not offensive at all. I happen to be an atheist, and all the title did was pique my curiosity and bring me to your article, which was very thoughtful. Obviously, it's impossible to please everyone, but I fail to see how this article is in any way offensive.

  • 7 votes
#8.14 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 8:25 AM EDT
Proud American-252641

In response to 8.10,

I can see I hit a nerve with my original comment (Are you just trying to pick a fight ) and I can also see that that is exactly what you hoped to accomplish with your derogatory comment about a nickname, anyway what I do regret is responding in any way as it only gave you a reason to get on your soapbox and bash people of what did you call us ("a religious nature") We should just fade into the background. Again I will stick with my original assessment and say yes that is exactly what you hoped would happen. Glad you can find amusement for yourself at the expense of others.

  • 4 votes
#8.15 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 8:42 AM EDT
iarnuocon

What was that about not using Rob's column for mud-slinging, again?

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#8.16 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 8:55 AM EDT
Rob Ballew

Please as I said prior this was not meant to upset anyone and really do not wish for this to turn into one of "THOSE" threads. SO please keep it civil. My idea is we can TALK to one another not act like jerks. I mean I honestly feel we need not always attack those of opposing views. But who knows maybe I am wrong?

  • 7 votes
#8.17 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 9:00 AM EDT
Jack Huang

I still think it's a rather negative headline.

I think that it can possibly be construed as such. However, I didn't get that impression, and I think I'm probably one of the louder atheists on the Vine.

Rob, the headline was not negative.
What went thru my mind when I read it was, whoa, he's gotta be some brave soldier to dare to do that, and probably on his own time, too.

You just contradicted yourself there.

Glad you can find amusement for yourself at the expense of others.

O the irony of that in light of your comments here.

What was that about not using Rob's column for mud-slinging, again?

Self-control issues.

  • 6 votes
#8.18 - Mon Apr 7, 2008 12:48 PM EDT
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leonidasDeleted
Proud American-252641

Rob , so weird I stumbled on this article! I just finished writing a comment on another article on the vine talking about this very thing. Anyhow I just wanted to share with you; I recently read a book called

Jim and Casper go to Church: Frank Conversation about Faith, Churches and Well Meaning Christians
by Jim Henderson, Matt Casper with George Barna
It is about an Atheist (Casper) and an Evangelical Pastor (Jim) who team up and travel the country visiting different churches and then discussing them from Casper's point of view. The goal being that Jim wants to know what the "world"(non- believers) think and what keeps them out of church etc..

I have to say I found it to be a good read, and I think it really strengthened my faith and also gave me a different perspective. I don't have to try and convince people that my beliefs are the right or wrong; That is up to God.

It is not hard to see why the world has a harsh view of the Church today! Why go to church when you can go to the local bar and be surrounded by just as much hypocrisy! I for one don't want to be found guilty of it. That's my 2 cents worth!

  • 4 votes
Reply#10 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 10:51 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

Thanks for the comment and stopping by. I will check out the other article and maybe comment. I wanted this to be more or less about having a conversation and not acting like total jerks. I guess some might see it different but to me I think on most issues we can talk about things without attacking one another. Thanks again for the comment.

  • 5 votes
#10.1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 11:30 PM EDT
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Michelle Connolly

Another great article. I agree that we should learn to agree to disagree. Conflict will always exist because afterall, we are humans, it is part of our nature. But I believe that if we could all learn to listen more and talk less, the conflicts might not be so harsh.
Keep up the positive attitude. Its nice to read.

  • 3 votes
Reply#11 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 11:17 PM EDT
Rob Ballew

Thanks for the comment, I totally agree with all you are saying. So many want to talk/argue but it seems no one wants to listen. If we would listen more maybe things would be better. Thanks again I always try to be positive.

  • 3 votes
#11.1 - Fri Apr 4, 2008 11:34 PM EDT
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lizz-263307

So interesting to read an article about the discussion of religion after I had recently had the same discussion with a soldier that I write to in Iraq. Your friend is far more enlightened than I to recognize that if violence didn't occur around the theme of religion, it would occur around some other theme. That has given me something to think about as I am a non-religious individual myself and I have attributed many of the ills of the world to religion. However, perhaps those ills are just part of the nature of man and religion has nothing to do with it at all. A good subject to ponder.....thanks....

  • 4 votes
Reply#12 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 12:16 AM EDT
Rob Ballew

I think there are bad things done in the name of religion but as I have said I think humans would find another reason to do the things they do. It is human nature to be violent. Thanks for the comment and I am glad someone took something from the article.

  • 2 votes
#12.1 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:33 AM EDT
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Djehuty

Good article. I agree with you people would find something else to fight about.

Here in Australia, in the 1940s and 50s (my parent's day), there was a big argument between Catholics and Protestants. The kids would form into gangs and beat each other up after school. Nowdays it's more likely to be the Lebanese migrant's kids beating up the Greek migrant's kids. Same deal, it's just easier to pick on skin colour than on religion, especially if you can't tell your religion from your school uniform.

Pity. It's not like there aren't better things to do after school.

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Reply#13 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 12:40 AM EDT
Rob Ballew

Pity. It's not like there aren't better things to do after school.

Thanks for the comment I fear it is the same way in the US. Thanks again for stopping by.

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#13.1 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:38 AM EDT
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Juju-259490

Its funny you write this article, because my main direction is to treat people with respect no matter what they believe in, or what they do. I tend to run into people who simply disrespect another person based on there sexual orientation, religion, what they are upset about, just a bunch of things that i believe i have no right to judge a person on because how they feel about a situation, i would not know about because i am not in thier shoes. I think what your article states is right, we do need to learn to just disagree and not judge, i am a christian myself and i once had all the questions in the book about GOD and if he was real...and i believe that time just wasnt my time. This time around it is my time to believe and i greatly do, but i dont look down on anyone else who doesnt or who questions because i was once there and i know why. Life is all about learning, learning your way and another persons way. I'm happy you shared that with us Rob.

God Bless

  • 5 votes
Reply#14 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 1:55 AM EDT
Rob Ballew

Life is all about learning, learning your way and another persons way.

Thanks for the comment. I am not one to judge anyone. I let people live the way they want. As long as they are not hurting others why should we worry about them right. Thanks for stopping by.

  • 4 votes
#14.1 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:41 AM EDT
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vas

Rob, I hope you can accept this as sincere though it is coming from a non-believer: God bless you. Stay safe and please keep others safe.

  • 11 votes
Reply#15 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 2:20 AM EDT
Rob Ballew

Thanks vas, always a pleasure to have you stop by. I will always do my best to keep myself as well as others safe. It is my job :) Thanks Buddy good to see you here today.

  • 6 votes
#15.1 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:43 AM EDT
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Big Wil

Hey bro, I really enjoy your insight on things as you see it from outside the wire. GOD Bless you man!!! Continue to keep the idiots at double arms length.

    Reply#16 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 2:36 AM EDT
    Pavilion

    Rob -

    What a wonderful article. This topic needs to be regularly discussed. For years I've been involved in inter-faith dialog. In my particular situation that has included many discussions with Atheists and Agnostics. Like you - I have found that when we allow ourselves to connect as humans - then there really isn't a problem.

    I asked do you think religion causes violence, he looked me in the eyes and told me we would just find something else to fight about. And the truth is I feel the same way. Yes, there are whack jobs doing bad things for religion, just as I am sure there are whack jobs doing bad things for drugs, money, gangs, you name it.

    I am Christian, and like you I also feel concern about the violence connected with religion. Your friend is right, if we humans weren't arguing about religion, we'd be arguing about something else. This is a very true statement.

    But, I have also come to see the dynamic of religion and violence in a the light of things like nationalism, patriotism, racism. These things are USED to divide people. They are USED to convince one group of people that they are superior to another group of people. For me, at least, this dynamic of religion, nationalism, patriotism, racism being USED to divide people to convince one group of people that they are superior to another group of people is different than people fighting over drugs, money, gangs, etc...

    In the end violence seems to arise out of two different sides of humanity. There is the side of greed, power and control. That is the side we see when there is violence over drugs, money, gangs, control of natural resources (like oil), etc....

    But, there is another side as well. There is a side to the human condition that naturally tends to divide humanity into groups. This part of humanity is neither good nor evil. It just is - we humans just feel more comfortable when we are with people who look like we do and believe the same things we believe.

    But - too often in human history - this very tendency has been used to divide people and to instigate violence. One glaring example is how Hitler used these things to instigate violence against Jews, how he used these things to convince Germans that Jews were inferior (or worse - not even human).

    So - on a personal level - I have come to believe things like race, religion, ethnicity, national identity and patriotism have more power when it comes to violence. These things are easily tapped into and USED by those in power to convince large masses of people that they are justified in waging war.

    Just my thoughts.... :)

    I really enjoyed your article - it hit close to home for me because of my involvement in inter-faith dialog. The type of conversation you describe is the type of conversation that we should all be open to. I'm clipping this article to Successful Solutions.

    Take care of yourself Rob, and get home safe.

    • 11 votes
    Reply#17 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 7:47 AM EDT
    Rob Ballew

    I agree with you and I like the idea of the Successful Solutions, and am glad you enjoyed my article. I enjoy having these types of conversations. Thanks again for stopping by and clipping my article. I'll keep an eye on the group.

    • 4 votes
    #17.1 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 9:47 AM EDT
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    jnick

    Like so many other issues we tend to have the my way or the highway mentality.

    Excellent article, I agree with your points and intent of the article. Your conversation with your fellow soldier exemplifies the concept of communication. You, although agreeing to disagree, left the conversation with a better understand of his point of view, and he yours.

    I asked do you think religion causes violence, he looked me in the eyes and told me we would just find something else to fight about.

    I agree with this. A lot of wrong has been done throughout history in the name of religion, but equally revealed are horrid events done for the sake of greed, power and monetary gain. Mankind is a creature of war and historically has used any reason to engage in conflict.

    • 3 votes
    Reply#18 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 2:19 PM EDT
    Andrea A

    We are a destructive genus.. The human animal...

    • 3 votes
    #18.1 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 2:26 PM EDT
    Rob Ballew

    Mankind is a creature of war and historically has used any reason to engage in conflict.

    I agree my friend thanks for the comment. Maybe someday mankind will grow past this.

    • 4 votes
    #18.2 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 9:02 AM EDT
    jlk-267438

    I love that you express hope that we can move past tendencies towards violence and greed! I find it so sad when people say things like "war is inevitable", as if that is an excuse for us to not try and improve ourselves! I don't think it's easy or anything, but there is no reason not to at least hope (and try) for a more peaceful world :o)

    • 1 vote
    #18.3 - Mon Apr 14, 2008 9:43 PM EDT
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    badkungfu

    I asked do you think religion causes violence, he looked me in the eyes and told me we would just find something else to fight about.

    My take on religion's role in violence is not that it causes said violence, but that it can lend a justification for violence like nothing else in the world. If people can be made to believe that their god wants them to commit violence there is really no way to talk them out of it, because that kind of faith is immune to reason. "God is on our side" is such a powerful rallying cry for so many people- that's the tragedy religion often plays into. Does that make sense?

    Your friend is right- we'd certainly find other things to kill over. But I wonder if most conflicts might generally be of a smaller scale without the ability to latch on to an already prevalent and unquestionable truth.

    Thanks for the article.

    • 8 votes
    Reply#19 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 6:24 PM EDT
    kiml

    A true religion does not lead to violence. All major religions are against violence.
    Please don't give me hidden quotes in different religious texts. All religious texts have them.
    The texts that all religions follow are against violence.
    The biggest problem with religion is the way the scriptures are interpreted.
    Most are interpreted as pacifist. Some otherwise. There is the problem.
    I hate violence.
    As an atheist I find true followers of religion as people who I respect. They follow my guidelines as to how to treat all people.
    Maybe I am following their guidelines?

    • 2 votes
    #19.1 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 8:35 PM EDT
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    Huntan Peck

    Brilliant article, Rob, and a very refreshing point of view too, in this age of hyper-offensensitivity and ever increasing partisanship. What a radical idea, that one can actually have a decent, civil and rational discourse with somebody of an opposing viewpoint, and still agree to disagree and be able to call each other friend, and even come away learning more about others and yourself. I sincerely hope this idea catches on. Best wishes to you, Rob.

    • 5 votes
    Reply#20 - Sat Apr 5, 2008 8:24 PM EDT
    Andimia

    I actually rarely have problems talking to theists in person though I've learned who I can and cannot talk to rather early on. Growing up Atheist is much more difficult then many people understand (even people who become atheists later on in life) because there's always that fear of rejection. Even now as an adult I don't tell a lot of people because either I don't want to be discriminated against, I don't want to be mis-stereotyped (atheists have no morals didn't you hear) and I don't want somebody screaming at me that I'm going to hell (I saw that happen to a lesbian friend of mine because of her sexuality). It's good to hear that you talked to an Atheist today and you didn't judge, or discriminate, or disrespect an atheist today. Excellent article.

    I don't look forward to the day that my boyfriend's parents find out.

    • 3 votes
    Reply#21 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 1:55 AM EDT
    Derek C. F. Pegritz

    Very well said! As an atheist, I find that the only thing worse than a pushy Christian is a pushy atheist--in fact, anyone who doesn't understand that one of the basic foundations of civility and civilization is "agreeing to disagree" is flirting with a form of extremism that I universally oppose whether it's coming from a religious or non-religious viewpoint.

    • 5 votes
    Reply#22 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 3:14 AM EDT
    jnick

    As an atheist I find true followers of religion as people who I respect. They follow my guidelines as to how to treat all people.
    Maybe I am following their guidelines?

    Very well said! As an atheist, I find that the only thing worse than a pushy Christian is a pushy atheist--in fact, anyone who doesn't understand that one of the basic foundations of civility and civilization is "agreeing to disagree" is flirting with a form of extremism that I universally oppose whether it's coming from a religious or non-religious viewpoint.

    I agree, it doesn't matter, religion, politics, whatever, if one cannot express their views constructively and receive constructive feedback then the lines of communication are broken and only contempt is accomplished.

    • 3 votes
    Reply#23 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 12:47 PM EDT
    MinnieApolis

    CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?!
    Sorry, that's an oldie but still good.
    Most people's ideas are not going to be changed in just one conversation, and are sure NOT to change if they are attacked and insulted for believing what they believe.
    So dig out your old school guide on debating or persuasion. Apply it here. Have faith (a secular faith, I might add) that truth will rise to the top.

    • 3 votes
    Reply#24 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 5:28 PM EDT
    Brad Leclerc

    CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?!

    On the internet? Doubt it :P

    • 3 votes
    #24.1 - Mon Apr 7, 2008 1:02 PM EDT
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    Annette Tarantino

    If someone is an Atheist or any other faith, fighting for our country, they are a hero to me.

    I need to get up and turn off the infantile "Big Brother" TV show as it's an insult to why our American men and women are sacrificing their lives are fighting for us.

    There are plenty of idiotic "freedoms" we have; we owe it to our soldiers to improve American standards in all ways, we need to grow up and deserve the rights those fighting for us.

    Thank you.

      Reply#25 - Sun Apr 6, 2008 8:20 PM EDT
      Soldier Mom

      Rob,
      Throughout history more blood has been shed in the name of Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Bahá'í Faith, Hinduism, Sikhism, Jainism, Buddhism, Pharaonic Egypt, Roman religion, Mithras, Zoroastrianism, Deism and Pantheism. Did I forget any???

      We fight for our God (whoever that is to you) and our Land (where ever that is to you)...

      It's not until we decide to listen (as you did) can we understand that it's not how we believe or where we live.

      It's how we live that is important.

      Stay safe and be aware of your surroundings!
      Piece!

      • 4 votes
      Reply#26 - Mon Apr 7, 2008 12:59 PM EDT
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