Today I talked to a buddy of mine who happened to be an Atheist. I was on my way to breakfast at the chow hall when I ran into a buddy of mine. He asked if I was going and if I minded if he tagged along. As we made our way to chow we talked our trade and exchanged mission stories. He is in a different section now, but at one time we where in the same section. We laughed about missions we had in the past and people we have had run ins with. As we talked we started swaying towards religion. He is an Atheist, I am a Christian. So in a sense we had a lot to talk about. We talked about religion. No debating or arguing. No name calling or trying to prove the other a fool. It was basically 2 friends sharing our beliefs and pretty much agreeing to disagree. And to tell you the truth it was kind of refreshing to me.
You see so many times when religion is brought up the discussion can become very nasty or heated. People whether theist or atheist can tun into jerks when confronted by those with opposing beliefs. Like so many other issues we tend to have the my way or the highway mentality. The sad thing is we let this separate us more. It is sometimes one more thing we use to divide us. I told him of one of the big arguments I have seen being made. I asked do you think religion causes violence, he looked me in the eyes and told me we would just find something else to fight about. And the truth is I feel the same way. Yes, there are whack jobs doing bad things for religion, just as I am sure there are whack jobs doing bad things for drugs, money, gangs, you name it. The past is full of all sort of religious nuts, but I also know for a fact there where just as many nonreligious nuts running around to.
The bottom line for me is this we can have an honest discussion without becoming jerks to one another. I can honestly say that I do not look down on anyone for their beliefs. And that religion to me at least is not about violence. To me it is about a word so many like to use today to me it is about "hope". Hope for the fact that if I do good by God that I will go to a better place. Yes there are extremist in all religions and even extremist religions but in truth they are not the norms. And yes, there are those who love to push their belief on others to the point of being annoying and again I feel they are not the norms. Most whether religious or Atheist just want to live their lived the right way and be allowed to believe whatever they choose with out ridicule or attack.
My point is this, we can continue to attack others with opposing beliefs or we can just do what my buddy and I did today at chow agree to disagree and move on. So next time you have a chance to discuss religion versus Atheism why not just talk about it you might learn something.




