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Finding Lost Hope and a Little Perspective on a Long Boring Day

Fri Feb 27, 2009 3:55 PM EST
us-news, us, military, troops, politicians, heroes, wounded-warriors, staff-duty
By Rob Ballew
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Those who serve in the military understand many of the mundane tasks one gets stuck on while serving. Details like painting rocks, pulling weeds in a concrete motor pool, and my personal favorite "dud stomping". Yesterday, I had the honor of pulling staff duty. In essence I spent the whole day sitting at a desk in the front entrance greeting any and all who entered the brigade headquarters. I also did a little runner duty, raised and retired the colors, and cleaned the conference room. All this added to the fact I had to shave the OPFOR beard I had been growing for months now and cut my long hair so I could pull out the dusty old ACU's (uniform) I had not wore in months. In other words yesterday sucked.

Sometime during my long boring day I had decided maybe to read a Soldiers Magazine that was sitting on a table for people who where waiting to see someone in the building. If anyone knows Rob the soldier they know I am not the type to read "hooah" magazines like this. There was an actual time in my early career where I proudly held the title of "The Anti-Soldier", in other words I always pushed the envelope but only so far as to not receive any real trouble. I joked a lot, grew my hair as long as the standard permitted, and was pretty much a pain to any NCO within my chain of command. This has followed me even today as many of the guys who knew me in those days bring up what a true pain in the ass I was, all the while always making a sometimes mundane life interesting. So what I am trying to say in more words than I should is I was more the type to pick up a Maxim not a Soldiers Magazine. But as many soldiers who have pulled such duties would attest Brigade Staff Duty is no place for Maxim.

This particular issue was a sports special. With articles about the members of the Olympic team who currently serve in the Army. It also had articles about the Army 10 mile run, racing, as well as the basketball team. That was all interesting but what I found fascinating more than any of the feats these athletes had done was the stories of wounded veterans and the programs they participate in. I read about former PGA players taking time out to teach injured soldiers, a lot of whom where amputees, how to play golf. I read about a hockey team consisting of the "Wounded Warriors", amputee soldiers running the 10 miler, and even injured soldiers participating in rodeos. I read about how these brave warriors who have lost so much decided not to give in to the depression so many of us would feel had we been hit with the same circumstances. Instead choosing to prove that they are still able to do the things they love not only to themselves but to those of us who take them for granted.

The funny thing for me as I read of these brave Warriors I realized that I have taken what they have done for this country for granted. I realized that the uniform I complained about wearing all day yesterday was the same uniform these heroes wear or have worn with pride. Somewhere down the line I had become jaded, I let my political views as well as my disdain for current events in this country make me forget just how great these heroes are. The sad truth is, as I had been told a few times in the past "Rob I love you but right now I don't like you", I love the U.S. but I right now I don't like it. That feeling dictated how I felt about a number of things. But somehow reading of these "Wounded Warriors" gave me perspective and the hope that I had lost. A feeling that this country is still the same country I fell in love with and although I might not like the decisions made by the leaders, it is not these leaders who make the country it is the people who are what make the U.S. great. Leaders come and go, but the spirit of America lives on. I am sure I will still have my bad days. Thankfully, there are so many everyday heroes to give me inspiration and pride where our leaders fall short.

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Rob Ballew

First off I would appreciate if any political discussions arise from this for them to be respectful and abide as much by COH as humanly possible.

This whole jaded feeling I have had the past few moths has kept me from writing and commenting here and even discussing politics with others. Sadly, I do not believe the funk is 100% over but this helped a lot and hopefully help others feel better if even for a little while.

Here is a link to the Wounded Warrior Project give it look it is nice to know there are groups like this for our injured troops.

Thanks to all who stop by have a great weekend.

  • 7 votes
Reply#1 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 4:11 PM EST
LiveFreeDieFree

Duty, honor, and country, buddy. Semper fi, too. It's unfair the copyright Leathernecks have on that saying. We Army dudes can use it, too.

I was a fatalistic Army inductee in 67. Like you, I pushed the envelope but my Sergeant Major and E6 were just as fatalistic about us inductees are we inductees were about the Army.

I remember the haunted, gaunt, and hollow faces on those returning from Nam and barracked with us for their last few months. Many stories. Every time I think about what the Army forced the rice-paddyers to do, like kill women and children because it sure looked like they were holding grenades under their armpits, it makes me cry and rage. Very visceral. To them, semper fi.

We should all be proud of the magnificent job the men and women of our Armed Forces did in Iraq. The same hatred the nation showed towards the soldiers serving in Nam, they in effect showed towards those fighting and dying in Iraq. Against all odds -- the opposition to the war; an environment nearly as harsh as Nam vis-a-vis the hostility of the population and how easy it was to die -- the men and women of our Armed Forces won a victory equal to any other victory in our nation's history with the possible exception of the Revolution. To them, no words suffice.

  • 6 votes
#1.1 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:39 PM EST
Rob Ballew

Our Armed forces performed admirably in Iraq as well as Afghanistan, and please do not get me started on the treatment of the Troops who served in Vietnam. I am sickened and embarassed by the way Americans treated our troops then. I think most Americans respected and appreciated the job our troops are doing in Iraq and Afghanistan but I have had issues with some treatment of our troops also. Luckily I live in a decent part of the country that respects the troops. Thanks for stopping by I appreciate your input and your service.

  • 6 votes
#1.2 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 7:11 PM EST
ILoveAmerica59

You are lucky to be living in a conservative state. You should see how they treat the army in some liberal states. Worse than lepers. I heard that in some places the army folk get pelted with tomatoes each time they go to town (away from their base). Is it really that bad?

  • 3 votes
#1.3 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 7:27 PM EST
Rob Ballew

Not sure really to be honest most places I have been to I was treated quite well. I as I said I think most Americans hold the military in high regard only the crazy and @!$%#s would throw tomatoes and such. But like I said I have not been to many liberal states in uniform.

  • 5 votes
#1.4 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 7:32 PM EST
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rottlady

The Wounded Warrior Project sounds like a great project Rob. I think it's good for everyone to remember how much these guys have sacrificed and how great they are for reaching into themselves and trying to recover some of thier former selves after terrible injuries.

It's good that you are writing this and hopefully it will enable some of us to understand how our soldiers feel. A little understanding goes a long way.

As always, great article and thanks for sharing.

  • 4 votes
Reply#2 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 4:56 PM EST
Rob Ballew

Yeah, I was having a lot of problems of late finding any motivation. And sadly, I let my feelings politically causeme to forget the brave men and women. There is so much good our country does and some days it can be hard to remember with all the bad going on with our current crop of politicians. As I said these articles I read helped to put things back into perspective for me and for that I am thankful.I also thankful for my friend rottlady and her always kind and encouraging words thanks friend.

  • 5 votes
#2.1 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:09 PM EST
rottlady

I had noticed the absence of your articles, glad to see you writing again Rob.

  • 4 votes
#2.2 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:19 PM EST
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ILoveAmerica59

Good story, now only if the libs learned to support our troops.

  • 4 votes
Reply#3 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:01 PM EST
58rose

ILoveAmerica59

you need to turn the dam radio off and look around America you are one of the tomatoes just dilusional

  • 1 vote
#3.1 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 11:10 PM EST
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robertlyn-schultz

Hey Rob,

I would like to say thank you for highlighting the after injury deeds of our Wounded Warriors, and wish that the main stream media would not ignore these inspirational stories.

Sorry to hear about the hair-cut and shave but it will all grow back, you know I liked to push the limit myself, way back when. ;^)

They did not pull you from your OP-FOR team for good I hope (that would suck donkey balls).

I never did read The Army Times either while I served, but I was a regular reader of Star&Stripes (especially in Germany) and I miss that paper at times.

Hang in there my friend, all my best to you and your team,

Aloha

Hey Rob,

I would like to say thank you for highlighting the after injury deeds of our Wounded Warriors, and wish that the main stream media would not ignore these inspirational stories.

Sorry to hear about the hair-cut and shave but it will all grow back, you know I liked to push the limit myself, way back when. ;^)

They did not pull you from your OP-FOR team for good I hope (that would suck donkey balls).

I never did read The Army Times either while I served, but I was a regular reader of Star&Stripes (especially in Germany) and I miss that paper at times.

Hang in there my friend, all my best to you and your team,

Aloha

  • 6 votes
Reply#4 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:59 PM EST
Rob Ballew

I read Stars and Stripes everyday in Iraq. I remember my first tour we got Stars and Stripes 2-3 weeks old. It was the start of the war so the things where tougher to come by. I still appreciated it. My last tour the S&S where current but I read them everyday to keep up with my Cubs and Colts!

Don't worry I am still OPFOR, it was just my turn to do the duty.

Thanks again for stopping buy always a pleasure.

  • 5 votes
#4.1 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:35 PM EST
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robertlyn-schultz

That was wierd, could not delete the double text??? I did something, don't know what, but my bad! :^P

  • 5 votes
Reply#5 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:05 PM EST
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worldknightboy

Many came before us, some fell, and still many will come after us. Keep the faith, Rob, and know America if not the entire free world, for decades so far and many more to come, owe our armed services more than most can possibly imagine! Live your life as your conscience demands, for your integrity will allow no less!

  • 6 votes
Reply#7 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 8:02 PM EST
Rob Ballew

Thanks for stopping by worldknightboy. I agree our troops as a whole have done so much good around the world. I hope when this is all said ands done the historians will see the everyday heroes as the real heroes not the politicians.

  • 4 votes
#7.1 - Sun Mar 1, 2009 10:34 AM EST
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The OttO Show

Beautiful piece, Rob.

Don't get permamently jaded. Some of the best leaders in history and even our life times have shown that it's optimism and faith that wins back the heart of the country. We've been through far worse only to come out much stronger and better in the end.

  • 6 votes
Reply#8 - Fri Feb 27, 2009 9:14 PM EST
EllieP

Rob,

I always enjoy your articles. This one was a comfort to me. I think you know where my head/heart are on the current political situation. It helps to be reminded good people like you are on call for us. I'll just echo worldknightboy and Otto and thank you for the shot of optimism. Best, E

  • 6 votes
#8.1 - Sun Mar 1, 2009 12:24 AM EST
Rob Ballew

Otto, Ellie,

Thank you both so much for the kind words they mean so much to me. I enjoyed writing this and for some reason it just flowed out, uncommon for me these days really.

  • 6 votes
#8.2 - Sun Mar 1, 2009 10:41 AM EST
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jnick

I had become jaded, I let my political views as well as my disdain for current events in this country make me forget just how great these heroes are. The sad truth is, as I had been told a few times in the past "Rob I love you but right now I don't like you", I love the U.S. but I right now I don't like it. That feeling dictated how I felt about a number of things. But somehow reading of these "Wounded Warriors" gave me perspective and the hope that I had lost. A feeling that this country is still the same country I fell in love with and although I might not like the decisions made by the leaders, it is not these leaders who make the country it is the people who are what make the U.S. great. Leaders come and go, but the spirit of America lives on. I am sure I will still have my bad days. Thankfully, there are so many everyday heroes to give me inspiration and pride where our leaders fall short.

Rob, well said, excellent article. We all get so caught up in policies that it is easy to forget the sacrifices members and families have given throughout history to keep our way of life secure. Liberalism, conservatism, policies, ideologies all play a part in the making of our country but when the chips are down and our military fight, it is with pride for the belief that it is to preserve our freedom and the choice to have choices. It is truly troubled times and few are not disgusted with our leaders and the greed that plagues Washington. But, as always "everyday heroes" will answer the call with the hope that eventually our leaders will get it right! It is up to individuals like you, me and others to remind the forgetful of the heroic deeds of our warriors, and our leadership of our disgust and all of the sacrifices of our wounded and Proud warriors, and the reasons they gave so much for so many. Rob, you are doing your job!

  • 3 votes
Reply#9 - Sun Mar 1, 2009 9:45 AM EST
Rob Ballew

jnick,

Thank you so much for the kind words and stopping by. I echo your thoughts here and hope my words do those our brave Warriors justice. I think it is important in these times to realize there are heroes without a (R) or (D) following thier name.Have a great sunday friend.

  • 6 votes
#9.1 - Sun Mar 1, 2009 10:45 AM EST
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ann in Texas

I read about how these brave warriors who have lost so much decided not to give in to the depression so many of us would feel had we been hit with the same circumstances. Instead choosing to prove that they are still able to do the things they love not only to themselves but to those of us who take them for granted.

Thank you so much for sharing this, Rob. I always like your articles because they provide an inside look at the life of those that serve. Isn't it funny how what started as a mundane day turned into an opportunity to count blessings and "regroup".

  • 5 votes
Reply#10 - Sun Mar 1, 2009 2:53 PM EST
Rob Ballew

Thank you for the kind comment and for stopping by. Yeah it was still a long crappy day but in the end I did come out feeling better. I think everyone should have days like this if for no other reason than to remember those who face hardships everyday. I appreciate your comment have a great Sunday.

  • 5 votes
#10.1 - Sun Mar 1, 2009 3:32 PM EST
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